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astery is a theme that we'll be working with a lot in our class. Hazrat Inayat Khan (also known as Murshid) wrote a volume on the topic that's assigned reading over the summer, and though I've looked through it before, I'm looking forward to reading it in depth. I really really like the concept of mastery. I also love the feeling of being productive, which mastery and its associated tasks provides.

One of the biggest barriers to mastery for me has been my perfectionism. I often give up on something I've endeavored to master because I feel frustrated with my own inadequacy. For example, I've been trying to memorize a text for some time now and have started over about six or seven times in the course of one year. I keep losing the momentum and forgetting what I've done so far, and it's annoying and somewhat painful to keep coming up against my imperfection. It makes it hard to remember that the reason I want to master certain things is because I love them.

It helps me to look around and see who the modern-day masters are, for inspiration. And one of my favorites is a jovial midwestern woman who calls herself Flylady. Sure, she'll try to sell you a feather duster and a calendar, but you can also join her email list for free and get loving reminders such as, "Where is your laundry?" and "What's for dinner?". She is a master of the household, which is no easy thing, but moreover, she is anti-perfectionism.

No matter how filthy your domain, she tells you to jump right in and clean for fifteen minutes. That's it. No excuses, no perfectionism, just fifteen minutes. One can also babystep one's way into her cleaning routine, or explore the nuances of a shiny kitchen sink. But those fifteen minutes beyond judgement are the key. It gets me over the hump of never being good enough and into the realm of action, and I'm able to joyfully hack away at my task, imperfect though I may be, because doing something badly is better than wallowing in the thought that I'll never do it well enough.

I'll have more to say about mastery, I'm sure, but in the meantime I'm curious: what is it that you want to master?

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